Tuesday, March 2, 2010


With the subject of girlfriends I feel it important that I share a picture of my first girlfriend with you.  Ms. Macpherson and I were on again and off again for a long time.  If it hadn't been for your mother rescuing me from her, who knows where we would be.  

A big thing to take from this, is to never settle.  If you want to reach for the stars, DO IT!  The worst thing that could happen is that she will say no and miss out on the best thing that could have ever happened to her.

Having a girlfriend is not near as important as having girls who are friends!  If you didn't read that REAL CLOSELY, I want you to read it again.

The great thing about girls is that they are easy on the eyes, softer in all the right places, and they smell good.  Sorry, but you won't get that from any of the guys you hang out with.

Girls are not always easy to understand.  Heck, we aren't so easy to understand either!  Talking is the best way to fix that problem.  If you really want to get to know girls, make friends with them, talk to them, and most importantly, listen to them.  Always let the ladies lead the conversations.  I promise you will be way ahead of your knucklehead friends in your relationships if you just take the time and hear what the ladies are telling you.

Everything I have written in today's post is very important and very serious.  The next few sentences may be some of the most important advice I will ever give you, so read carefully and incorporate this into your life.

Society makes a big deal out of having a partner in your life.  Many of the Hollywood movies and a lot of the advertising agencies, push the importance of having a girlfriend to be complete.  What they don't tell you is that if you feel that way, you'll always be looking for the next one, a "better" one.  That is not a way to live.

One day find a young lady you want to get to know better.   Talk, listen, and learn.  Through this process, I promise you will find and make many friends.  After you've learned how to have girl friends, then you will be ready to have girlfriends!!

Elle Macpherson's loss,

Big Daddy of Love


Sarah said...

Thanks Elle Macpherson! ;>
God's blessings,

Kala said...

Can I have you come over and explain all this to my husband? : ) Preferablly the "listening" part